Monday, August 27, 2012

Let's set the record straight

And the nonsense continues. I don’t normally read the silliness posted on either Ruthie’s or Gertie’s  so called “blogs”, but there were a few things that were brought to my attention. I should probably set the record straight.
First, I actually AM a Reiki practitioner, and I have the greatest respect for the Reiki principles, one of which states. “I will be kind to people and all living things.” If you have read my posts, I have often urged these two tormented women to seek the help they need in order to find some measure of peace in their lives. They have obviously not done so, and are in denial that they need counseling. As far as one of them being a Reiki practitioner goes, I would ask how she reconciles her behavior with the principle I mentioned. I might also mention that being a Reiki practitioner is NOT my occupation, and I have never asked for or accepted any monetary payment from treating anyone. I feel that if someone requests a treatment, they have enough to deal with without having to worry about financial considerations. Sure sounds like I abuse and bully people, doesn’t it? 
Now on to point 2. Desperation shows when my family, who has nothing to do with either of these people, is brought up. I cite the statement that my sister is a teacher. She, in fact, is not. Was that a mistake on the poster’s part, or was it a deliberate lie? One can only wonder. And why was my sister brought up in the first place? The only conclusion can be that the poster is a stalker, and is willing to go to any length to try to discredit me. How long will it be before my sister is attacked and harassed?
Point 3. There was a review of my EX-WIFE’S liquor store that was rather uncomplimentary. Now the attack falls on HER and does not address any issue the poster has with ME. Now she’s trying to ruin the reputation of a totally innocent and uninvolved party. Again, I would ask the question of whether the poster was aware of the fact that I am in no way associated with the store, or is this yet another example of how she’ll lie in order to try to destroy someone’s reputation.
Point 4. I have never been in the real estate business. Another mistake or lie?
Point 5. I never denigrated nurse’s aids. They are an important and necessary part of any medical facility, and I actually hold them in high esteem. I just questioned the reason why, in 30 some years, there has been no inclination to take advantage of some of the opportunities which must have presented themselves in order to seek advancement.
Point 6. I am not now, nor was I ever, an abuser. Outside of their own paranoia, I challenge either one of them to bring forth the name of anyone, male or female, who was abused or bullied by me. If someone wants to see abuse, however, I have only to refer them to the postings of my accusers. They will find both stalking AND abuse in both “blogs”. As far as me being a bully goes, if suggesting that they seek help in order to find some measure of peace and happiness in their heretofore sad little lives is bullying, then I guess I’m guilty. If you want to see what bullying REALLY is, just read their “blogs”. You’ll find nothing BUT bullying there. I would say that their concept of bullying is that anyone who disagrees with them is a bully and wrong. When someone DOES present a differing point of view, they whine about it. I guess they can dish it out o.k., and don’t mind trampling on other’s rights to free speech, but they can’t take it, even when it’s not happening to them. Interesting, no? Paranoia perhaps? The world isn’t out to get you two, and neither am I. I haven’t gone out and tried to find out what you do, who you know, or what misfortunes you’ve encountered. Yet you two have tried to do that to me, and in the process, have gotten much of it wrong. Aren’t you tired of embarrassing yourselves yet, or are you deliberately lying?   
  
I have at no time resorted to name-calling or foul language. The only purpose for this blog is to try to stop the viciousness toward a friend who is desperately trying to sever relations with her persecutors so that she can find some peace in her life.
Due to the mistakes or outright lies I have countered here, stop and wonder how much of the postings of these two tormented souls is in any way accurate.
Once again, I can only wish them peace in their lives.   

8 comments:

  1. The facts remains, Brian Maloney/Champ/Pilgrim, you did indeed, started attacking us, on Joan Wheeler’s behalf, in December of 2011 on the Buffalo News site http://www.buffalonews.com/editorial-page/from-our-readers/my-view/article450236.ece
    and then again in April of 2012 on an Adoption Family Circle site.

    We found out who you are, exposed you and your bullying to US, as Joan’s henchman. In other words, you took it upon yourself to attack us, not the other way around, that is the fact, you cannot alter what you have done to US by any form of double-talk.

    We do not care what you think or feel, about us or anything, period. You are NOT our focus. Our work is done with you. The very fact that you still have this blog and that you continue on insulting us, only proves that you have no conception about the issues we have with and about Joan Wheeler and yourself.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Brian is a liar – I did not mention his wife’s name in connection with the liquor store – I got my information from BRIAN’S resume that HE put up on LinkedIn – BRIAN’S OWN WORDS HAVE CONDEMNED HIM –
    It was BRIAN that said that “only Joan” (in our family) “educated herself” while the rest of us worked in “menial jobs.” He didn’t say nurses’ aides specifically – but then what was he referring to?
    Joan’s family members have worked as:’
    fatther – civil engineer in Buffalo City Hall – educated himself by going to night school
    Gert – dental hygienist after attending Erie Community College
    Kathy – music teacher in Liverpool Public schools, educated as musician and teacher.
    Leonard Jr. – nurse aide, mental health counselor, educated as nurse aide, counselor
    Ruth – nurse aide, educated as such

    Joan’s adoptive father – worked at Dunlop Tires as an electrician – had to be educated for that.
    various members of Joan’s extended birth family – have worked in bank offices, registered nurses, many varied occupations and degrees of education.

    so what is BRIAN’S basis to say that Joan is the only person in our family who is educated and just WHO is working at a menial job -

    Brian – SHUT YOUR MOUTH – because you are only making an ass of yourself.

    It was YOU Brian that brought up JOAN”S education and said that she is the only one interested in education herself. It was RUTH who showed Brian for the idiot that he is – and now he is backtracking and lying – no wonder he’s divorced, foreclosed on his condo, dresses like po’ white trash.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Atta girl,Ruthie! Just how would you know what I dress like? After all, we've never met and you have never even seen me. BTW, I'm still in my condo. You're right about one thing though. I never mentioned nurse's aids in a derogatory manner. "Making an ass of myself"? By trying to restore a little peace to your WHOLE family? Guilty as charged! As far as being a liar goes, answer the 6 points I made here, then we'll talk about that. Meanwhile, anyone reading this can see clearly who the "LIAR" is, and it's as plain as the nose on your face that it isn't me.
      Peace to you.

      Delete
  3. Why don't you post my comment Brian?

    you started this, we don't know you, you attack us, we exposed you and you are now lashing out just like Joan does..
    we do have the right and we will continue to speak out against those that have attacked us...
    you and joan are two peas in a pod, why don't you dry up and disappear..

    ReplyDelete
  4. I re-read the Buffalo News article mentioned by Gertie, and if anyone considers what I wrote there to be an "attack", I would suggest that they should get a thicker skin. I merely suggested they seek counseling. Again, neither of Joan's sisters have addressed the points I made in this posting. Why? because they are unable to do so. Gertie, you did write a rather unflattering view of my ex-wife's store. What did she ever do to you to make you want to try to destroy her business? You surely did research to find out who the owner was, didn't you? If not, you just attacked and bullied and abused someone out of mean-spiritedness who has nothing whatsoever to do with either of us, andwho has no idea who Joan is. And you have the unmittigated gall to call ME a bully and abuser? If you want to know what a bully and abuser really is, just look in the mirror and/or visit Ruthie. She says I dress like po' white trash without having even met me. I've no idea how SHE dresses, and I don't care, but from her writing, it's easy to see who it is that her description of me fits, and it's not, in fact me at all. She is simply to obtuse to see that the term describes her writing and attitude. All I can do is hope you both eventually see that you need counseling as badly as Joan, and you both find peace in your lives.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Brian…this is Gert speaking that is the name I go by and I request that you HONOR that, if you continue to insult me by using a name that Joan told you to use than you are still an abuser who insults women because you think we are nothing. I assure you that I mean business Brian Maloney; my name is GERT, not gertie. Get that! I am not Ruth. You, Brian continue to confuse us, we are different people who speak for themselves and are not responsible for what the other says or does.
    Yes, what you wrote on the Buffalo site was indeed an attack, if you can’t see that, that is your problem, stop playing stupid. Who the hell are you to suggest to people, that you don’t know, that they need counseling? On the advice of Joan Wheeler? Sorry, that means nothing, she’s a real sick puppy. The mere fact that you wrote in such a matter, on that site, only proves your own worthlessness.
    We are under no obligation to answer anything to you, or to Joan. You are nothing to us, go away, your continued postings only prove that you are a bully and a harasser. We have warned you for over 4 months. I think it’s about time that the POLICE are told about you. You have ceased to be any ‘defender’ and have shown yourself to be an abuser, to women you don’t know…times up.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Gert... tis is a one time concession to your request. From now on, it's quid pro quo. If you continue to insult Joan and myself, you are still an abuser who insults everyone and anyone because you think that they are nothing.
      No, what I wrote on the Buffalo site was indeed NOT an attack, and if you can't see that, that is your problem. Who are you to harass people who have masters and doctorates in social work? The mere fact that you continue to persecute your own sister after 30 years of harassment suggests that counseling might, in fact, be called for. I don't believe for a moment you're worthless, but it's obvious that you can't seem to let go of your hate, and most people would tend to see that as a bit unusual. Obsessive, perhaps?
      I am under no obligation to answer to either you or Ruth. Your continued postings only prove that you are a bully and harasser. I think it's about time that the POLICE are told about you. I am merely defending a friend, while you have shown yourself to be an abuser of anyone who disagrees with you... time's up.
      All I can do is hope you somehow find peace in your life.
      By the way, here's the first amendment to the Constitution of the U.S.
      Freedom of Speech, Press, Religion and Petition

      Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.
      Please note the bit about "freedom of speech". Isn't that what we're both exercising? Are you under the false impression that this amendment applies only to you?

      Delete
  6. new blog post....
    Update on developments, of Joan Wheeler’s dirty deeds, that were exposed on August 14, 2012

    by gertmcqueen

    ReplyDelete